Finding Grace in Charlotte Mason

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Finding Grace in Charlotte Mason methods

Over the last couple of months, I’ve been on a very unexpected journey, delving into the depths of an educational method called Charlotte Mason. And while I don’t want to bore anyone with irrelevant tidbits, I have to blog about this: it’s been too life-changing not to.

I’d read a few brief summaries about the Charlotte Mason method of educating several years ago when we first got started homeschooling. I thought I knew the “gist” of it, and I thought I knew it wasn’t for us. But the more I’ve really understood what Charlotte Mason (CM) is all about, the more it appealed to me. And the more I realized how much I originally had misunderstood and misjudged this method and those who followed it.

Here’s my disclaimer: I’m not an authority on this method, by any stretch, and I whole-heartedly advise you to go to the source to get an accurate picture. But with that said, here’s a glimpse of what I’m discovering.

What Charlotte Mason is NOT

  • It is not unschooling or delight-directed, not even close.
  • It is not undisciplined or unstructured.
  • It is not merely about making your student happy in everything.
  • It does not abandon memory work.

I start with this because these were some of my assumptions, and even some of the assumptions I’ve read on other blogs. But do some research from those who are the authorities, and you will discover something totally different.

What Charlotte Mason Is (in an extremely brief summary)

  • It is a form of classical education, in the sense that it is a modern adaptation of the classical approach. According to Susan Wise Bauer of the Well-Trained Mind, that’s all any of these classical approaches really are, an individual’s adaptation of those principles. We are all neo-classical, in all honesty. For me this explained a lot of the similarities between both classical and CM, and also explained those differences.
  • It is very structured and disciplined. Charlotte Mason’s ideas encourage complete concentration to a subject. There is no time for day-dreaming. And her emphasis on habit-training is excellent; proof that she did not believe in a student ruling the day.
  • It encourages critical-thinking skills.
  • It is a paradox of simplicity and “feasting.” The method and curriculum are extremely simple and economical, yet it does not skimp on the quality of the lessons or the range of subjects offered. Truly an amazing, beautiful paradox.

What I’m Discovering and Loving about CM methods

I stumbled upon a blog that raved about Karen Andreola’s book The Charlotte Mason Companion. The review was so enthusiastic that I had to read the book for myself, especially since it was available for free through my local library. So while my husband was having back surgery, I sat in the waiting room and literally devoured this book. As in, I started and finished the entire book in that one afternoon. It was the answer to all our current homeschool dilemmas.

From there, I read every free resource at Simply Charlotte Mason. Then, in God’s divine timing, Cindy West published her new ebook Charlotte Mason Homeschooling (affiliate link).

What did I discover that totally rocked my world? I found simplicity, where classical tends to be extremely complex and taxing. I found grace, when I was really discouraged and overwhelmed by the rigors of classical. I found beauty, which I felt had been beaten out of nearly every subject with the classical approach.

So am I abandoning a classical approach for Charlotte Mason? No. There are still tenents of the classical education that I firmly hold to. I’m working on blending the two approaches into the perfect fit for our family. And while I can’t say what will work best for you, if you are in need of simplicity, grace, or beauty in your homeschooling or parenting, the CM way might hold some answers.

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Growing Character: ideas for character training

For Bible, we have been focusing on learning different character traits. To reinforce our character training, I made a poster for the kids with a garden theme.

As we learn a trait, I paste a flower into the garden (on the flower is written the definition we have memorized as well as the reference to the Bible verse we learned).

During the day, I watch for the kids to demonstrate one of our traits; and when one of them is doing a good job, he/she gets to water the flower with a watering can, attached to the poster with velcro dots.

Watering cans attached with velcro dots (I have their names covered)

What we’ve learned so far:

To be attentive is to listen and to do. Luke 11:28

To be determined is to do what I must do, no matter how hard the task. Phil. 4:13

To be faithful is to do what is expected, when it is expected. Luke 16:11

To be obedient is to happily do what I am told. Numbers 15:39

To have compassion is to have a loving heart and servant’s hands. 1 Peter 3:8

We work on memorizing the Bible verses and definitions for about 4 weeks, and then continually review. If there is a song that includes the idea behind the character trait, we learn that, too. This has been an extremely enriching time with the kids. Though I don’t teach a Bible story during this time with them, I will often refer to the stories they’ve recently learned either in Sunday School or in our family devotion time.

Then, throughout the day, I have the opportunity to praise them for their character not simply their actions. Also, when they have not shown that trait, I have a Biblical reference point to go to with them.

How does your garden grow? What activities have you done with your little ones to teach them the Bible? Please share your ideas in the comments.